Time Capsules for a Bride - Part 1
Updated: Dec 28, 2020
Now more than ever brides deserve the perfect gift, why not get them one that they will not only forget…but last forever. Capsules have a way of preserving moments so they never lose their momentum.
Every little girl has a wedding fantasy that lives rent free in their minds until they find that perfect someone. I know I did/do. It is some sort of unsaid precedent that every teenage girl is to make a wedding Pinterest board. I found this out the hard way. Every time I came across a sheer lace white dress, I pinned it to my board…as if I would have the same taste getting married as my 13-year-old self. There I was, thinking I was being unique and different, having it all planned out. That was until of course I showed up to school one day and all the girls in my grade started comparing décor and lighting. I think we were a little naïve to think the dream-like wedding image in our heads would last forever. Sometimes planning ahead of time is not always the best solution. Times change and so do we.
Out of boredom and spiked interest from this blog, I decided to revisit my old Pinterest board and see what I believed would have been my ideal wedding. Boy was I off. In this fantasy I created, I would have been 22, had pink themed décor and a plain white dress with a singular grey ribbon. I am currently 21, single, despise the color pink and most importantly think the dress I chose is beyond boring. Our lives never turn out the way we anticipate…which includes unprecedented times.
I think most of you would agree with me when I say Corona has completely changed the way we behave as a society (see my previous blog). If 2020 has taught us anything, it is that life goes on. Despite the chaos in the world, weddings are whimsical occasions made to remind people just how powerful love can be. In some ways, Covid acts as another challenge couples face to make them stronger. Engagements and weddings shed a little light in these dark times.
My sister, Shayna Garber, was set to get married in April 2020. It was pretty much all she could talk about. After a 4 year long relationship and 1 year long engagement, her big day was finally approaching. Everything was perfect. We all cried the day she picked her dress, the engagement party was elegant and classy and importantly her bachelorette party was a night she would never forget. I think we fulfilled every wedding cliché there was. The suspense of the wedding had everyone on their toes, eager to see the beautiful couple finally seal the deal. Then the unthinkable happened. I think she was more shocked than devastated. All of this build up for what? Quarantine? The day they were suppose to start the rest of their lives together had just been indefinitely postponed. Shayna and her fiancé faced three options:
Cancel the wedding all together
Elope in a court room and postpone the reception for a later date
Option 1 was not in the cards. They were getting married regardless. It was 2 and 3 they really struggled with choosing. Ultimately Shayna and her fiancé, Daniel, settled for option 3. Their love was not going anywhere, so why should their wedding? They rescheduled the wedding for December 13, 2020 in hopes of Corona being under control. Now if you are reading this, you know that is just a week and a half away…and Covid is worse now than ever. The only thing different between now and April is that we have adapted. We have officially accepted our new normal and with that have made new traditions to keep times like this special. While it took lots of compromise and patience, the wedding will go on. Shayna actually found her new Covid arrangement more likable than the original wedding plans.
Instead of having a room of filled with 200 guests she had not seen in years and had to fake excitement with, the list was cut down to just immediate family and close friends. Everyone will be tested a week before the wedding and quarantine during that time. Not only is this wedding a symbol of love between the happy couple, but for everyone else who cares about them. It is a very comforting thought to know the lengths the people who love you will go.
I think this wedding needed to happen now more than ever. It is easy to lose sight of the big picture, but memorable occasions like these are made to bring everyone together and serve as a reminder that we are not alone.